Monday, April 14, 2014

Love Me..or not.



Sunglasses: vintage Sweater: Forever 21 Necklace & Ring: vintage
Shorts:
Ally Purse: L.A.M.B Shoes: Enzo Angiolini (Nordstrom Rack)

I get asked if I'm dating more often than I'd like to.  I know it's a valid question being a single mom and all, but is it that important for me to be "finding someone" right now?  Is it necessary for me to find a father for Ian already? I mean, he's only 7 months old.  My focus has been on him.  How am I suppose to find the time to not only meet someone, but to invest in getting to know the guy and make sure he's the right one for US?

So here's my answer: No I'm not dating anyone.  
I don't plan to until I feel I can balance "finding the one" 
with raising Ian how I want to raise him. 

I'm choosing Ian.  I'm choosing to make sure that I don't miss these important moments when he depends on me.  Besides, whoever can steal my gaze away from Ian will be worth the wait. 

Fairytales were never meant for me.  Like most things in my life, the best things come unexpectedly.  It's not being "complicated." It's life.  

You do what's important and the rest will come.

<3
Melissa

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